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One thing that most girls should understand and don't usually do is the fact that you should never second-guess your worth in a relationship. It may be a generalization, but i've realized that ALOT of people constantly get really obsessed over arguable basic foundations of what being in a relationship is all about which my past relationship encountered.

Things like, whether your partner is going to cheat on you, or...whether they love you...will they leave you...etc These nagging questions constantly peg you and can be the basis of destruction for many relationships. And really, most of it are basically just amplified obsessions.

At the end of the day, you should know what you have to offer (your significant other). If you have alot of good personality traits...you'd have even more to offer. (added bonus if you're hot)If you have a shit personality, then you probably don't have much to offer and should be worried. However, if you have a shit personality but is VERY HOT, then you probably shouldnt be worried, but only after you hit your 30-40s. But by then it will be too late to nurture your shit personality and you probably would end up alone forever,(and under the same category as the ugly people with shit personalities) so you have even more to be worried about. (i.e. your dating pool)

BUT ANYWAYS.... what i'm saying is that....you SHOULD be firmly grounded in your self-worth. The rest comes naturally. If they don't appreciate it, then so be it. Their loss.

There's always going to be someone else who will better compliment you, who appreciates you for you. That's how i am going to live my life anyways. Cos i know whoever marries me will be very lucky =p

It's very much like business. You lay out the goods (no sexual connotations here intended) and claim its worth. No less. Don't oversell. Don't undersell. (Keep in mind to be realistic here)If someone's not giving you what you think you deserve, pack up.

Move on. Just food for thought.